There's nothing more irritating than ingrown hair, especially if it's in your sensitive or intimate body part. It can be itchy, sore and awkward in all the wrong places. Nothing's worse than feeling that itch at a dinner party, while the guest of honor is speaking and looking straight at you when you want nothing more than to be in the privacy of your bathroom, scratching away like there's no tomorrow to make it all better.
The solutions to ingrown hair problem lies on various methods from easy treatments and professional service to simple, no-fuss prevention.
The Right Shave
For most people, ingrown hair stems from improper or incorrect shaving technique. Now, if you run the razor near the hair it'll shave some off and it's very hard to get that part wrong, but there is a way to minimize the damage it can cause. Aiming for a close and ultra-clean shave might actually cause the problem. Instead, shave along the hair, not against and most definitely, not across. Doing this is almost as bad as shaving the same spot repeatedly.
Throw Away The Tighties
For those who enjoy tight clothing, here's some bad news. Tight clothes are not only uncomfortable and very restricting, it can also cause ingrown hair problems. Can't believe it? Here's a logical explanation to convince you - if your hair isn't compressed against your body most of the time, the chances of getting an ingrown hair drop. This is especially true if you happen to be post bikini wax. Squeezing your privates with a tight pair might give you an infection. So why not don comfy, loose clothing once in a while to give your skin some breathing space especially if you've just had a goodbye-hair day of waxing or shaving.
Clean-Up Crew: If the Damage is Already Done
If you're already suffering from ingrown hairs, well, tough. Don't lose heart though because there's still something you can do about it. You can apply a warm or heated moist towel on the trouble area to steam it. After doing so, exfoliate the skin using a loofah, a soft cloth or a mild body scrub. This will usually expose the offending hair, allowing you to shave it better. Just make sure that you don't scrub too hard as it might cause ungodly reactions such as skin reddening, rash, irritation and even skin darkening in the long run. Go easy on the loofah action.
A bit of a worse case might demand the help of a friend or an accomplice. Some ingrown hairs start out deep in the skin, making them difficult to spot. For this situation, plucking is the answer. You'll need needle-nosed tweezers as your weapon against ingrown hair. Make sure first that the tweezers are properly sterilized to avoid bacterial infection especially if you have sensitive skin. You need to pull out the offending hair one by one. Expect that this can be difficult especially if you're all shaky and sweaty but it's one of the more convenient methods. After finishing an area, it's a good idea to cleanse the spot again and then proceed to shave it if you still aim for a smoother finish.
A needle is a perfectly workable substitute, though one that demands more finesse. Standard tweezers are out of the question however. They can cause more damage than you think as they can painfully pinch the skin as you're attempting to pull out the stubborn ingrown hair.
Protect Yourself
For some people it's not a matter of proper shaving habits or the like, but a matter of genetics. It ain't their fault their DNA make-up includes "hairy" on the list. It is advisable to apply a healthy amount of anti-septic to the area after shaving to further control their ingrown hairs.
There are more solutions to the ingrown hair situation such as specific treatments like laser that target hair removal and buffering ingrown hairs, particularly helpful for those who don't have the manual dexterity to finagle the hair out of its hidey hole or those who lack in patience and perseverance. Ingrown hairs can be real stubborn, mind you. They stick it out for the long haul and they'll never go away unless you do something about it.
If none of the DIY methods work or if it begins to hurt far too much, don't be afraid to see a dermatologist and get it checked out. I'm 100% certain no woman in her right mind wants something infected anywhere near her bajingo. It just ain't right, honey.

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Collagen injections don't have to be the only way for a girl to get fuller lips. If you don't want to have to go through the hassle of an expensive -and potentially very painful- cosmetic procedure, you can buy your fuller lips right over the counter. That's right. Get plumped with to die for lips without the pain and have it in a simple swipe!

In a nutshell, plumpers are lip-gunk - cosmetic products people apply to their lips just like lipstick, lip gloss and lip balm. The difference however between lip plumpers and all of these other kinds of lip product is that applying a lip plumper can actually make your lips fuller, not just make them look fuller. Now there's a definitive word: MAKE your lips fuller. Sigh...the magic of cosmetics. The blessing of modern invention. Anybody whose vanity lies on their lips but is scared to death of syringes or is broke in cash, can now sleep in peace knowing that there is a simple yet effective solution to their beauty dream. Just like the name suggests, lip plumpers actually make your lips well... plumper.

They're great for that just-kissed, pouty effect. That kind of look can drive the boys and girls if you wish so, absolutely wild! Katie Perry hasn't said it any better when she sang "I Kissed A Girl".

There's a reason why so many girls try to look like Angelina Jolie nowadays. Those full lips, coupled with that killer bod, have helped catapult her to the Hollywood A-List. If I'd have to say so, her lips got famous before she did. Sort of like the actress with the awesome lips. And they got her Brad Pitt too, which is a great plus! Of course, for some people, Jolie-grade lips might not be possible without cosmetic surgery, but lip plumpers can give you the chance for the same kind of alluring pout. Then you can feel like Angelina Jolie every single day!

In most cases, lip plumpers make your kisser more kissable with ingredients that "irritate" the skin on your lips. No worries though! This isn't as bad as it sounds. This is so because the skin on our lips is actually much more delicate than the skin on the rest of our face. This is a wake up call too. The way we care about the delicate skin around our eyes should also be extended to our lips.

What makes lip plumpers work? You might ask. They usually contain ingredients like camphor and menthol, and aside from giving your lips that fun, tingly feeling, they also make blood rush to your lips, causing them to swell and making them fuller and smoother. Ooh tempting! Lip plumpers can also make your lips feel softer giving your lips a nice nutrient boost that can help prevent peeling and chapping.

Most of the time, plumpers can be applied the same way people apply lip gloss or lip balm - using a wand applicator with a fun, fuzzy tip; with your fingers, directly form the tube, or with a lipstick brush. This kind of cosmetic product can come in a clear gloss, tinted, or even opaque, giving your already fuller lips a punch of color to match the rest of your makeup. Some of the sheerer kinds of lip plumpers can be applied right before you apply your lipstick. There are a lot of different kinds of lip plumpers available commercially, and they can range in price from five dollars to one hundred dollars. It's up to you how far you're willing to splurge. They're available in in department stores, most drug stores, and online.

Just a dose of reality though. Not all lip plumpers work. Lip plumpers' active ingredients aren't always that effective on some people. Meanwhile, those with especially sensitive skin might actually get itchy or cracked lips, and some products might not react with some individuals' unique body chemistry. As with other beauty products, what works for some may not be true to others. So, if you want to make sure that you have the right kind of lip plumper especially for you, it'll be a good idea to test it before you pucker up.

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Blondes have more fun and maybe that's why you want to learn how to bleach hair. Well, that's really not a sure thing -the having more fun part anyway- but maybe you want to walk around blonde for a while. I've been wanting to bleach my hair blonde for the longest time anyway. It'll make me look better in a bunch of outfits, so that's a plus too.
Now, I knew that just dumping a bunch of chemicals on my head was probably a bad idea. Daring, sure, but it isn't very smart so I decided to go to the research. There's plenty of advice on how to bleach hair running around, but the internet isn't exactly known for accountability. Just about anything can crop up on the net. Here are a few considerations for anyone who wants to be a blonde, at least for a little while.
Of course, before I put a single cent into my "blondening" efforts, I did some research. First, I had to figure out if it'll look good with my skin tone and of course, with my clothes. Access to photo manipulation software can easily show you just how you would look platinum, ash or dark blonde. Before I even started on the road to bleach my hair blonde, I checked out how it would look.
Damn nice, that's what, so for me, it was all lights are green and go. For you - check it out. If you have it bleached, it's gonna stay that way for a while. Might even damage your hair while you're at it and it'll only be worse if it makes you look sick and washed out. Well, nothing wrong with that if that's what you want, but most people aren't looking for that look.
You do have to consider that doing this at home is probably a bad idea to begin with. Salons know how to bleach hair - this is what they paid to do. It's so easy to ruin hair - too much wrecks it, too little and you can barely notice what changed or at worst, you end up another shade of the rainbow. You also have to consider that putting your hair through this ordeal means that you're going to damage it at some point if you keep it up, no matter how careful you or the salon is.
Another reason to get into the salon chair? Hydrogen peroxide. That's what you use to bleach your hair and it's not exactly something you should handle without care. Getting in your eyes means that you should pull a "Who Wants to Be a Millionaire" and call a friend to get you to help. Swallowing the stuff is even worse.
Nothin' wrong with wanting lighter hair. Nothing at all - but the actual process can be difficult, time consuming and if Darwin was right, dangerous to some people. No matter how many how to bleach hair guides you read or how much I want to bleach my hair blonde myself, it's probably better to get into a salon chair.

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Beauty pageants can be entertaining for small girls and their families. Girls get to dress up and strut their stuff. They learn poise, gain confidence and develop social skills in the milieu of beauty pageantry. These pageants also require a lot of time and effort on the part of the entire family. The hair must be perfect, the dress outstanding and these are the easy parts of getting ready for that first ultra-glitzy beauty pageant. All of this can be pretty intimidating given the caliber of the competitors the little darling will face. Keep these tips in mind before you even begin preparations.
1. Start Small
The idea of a beauty pageant is appealing to many mothers and daughters. Lot's of little girls think its fun to play dress up and prance about on a stage. Add to that the chance to wear a crown and win a trophy and the occasion becomes even more joyous. Be aware though that this kind of entertainment comes with a lot of work, usually more than anyone expected. There is an abundance of practice sessions and rehearsals involved in these high-powered pageants. Many entrants do one or two and call it quits.
Before investing real money and time in it, be sure this is something the two of you really enjoy and want to continue doing. Borrow a fancy dress or rent one and help your daughter learn a simple routine to perfection. If she enjoys herself at these pageants, you can begin to spend real money. In any case, the first pageant you enter should be all about fun, not winning. Winning comes later.
2. Bring a Friend
Especially in the beginning an extra pair of hands can be a godsend. Bring along an adult that both you and your daughter are comfortable with. This person can be the supervisor of wardrobe and supplies. Pageants attract dozens of little girls and their family members. Things can and do get lost in the chaos and having someone around to immediately replace lost (or forgotten) items can be a huge relief.
When it's time to get ready, it's all hands on deck. Makeup time is one of the most important times to have an extra set of hands. Have you ever tried putting mascara on a four year-old? You'll most certainly want someone there to keep her distracted and still. Your helper can also make a big difference during the pageant itself while you're backstage. Have your helper stand behind the judges; this will help your little girl know where to focus. If she forgets where to walk, they can also help direct her using arm motions.
3. Don't Lose Your Cool
The main reason beauty pageants have a bad reputation is the stressed out parental figures involved. An aggressive nagging parent only manages to upset and frustrate their child. Judges are onto this and can tell easily if the child doesn't really want to be there and compete. For the sake of your child, calm down, take a few deep breaths and show your daughter you are calm. She will remain as calm as you are.
Focus on the fun of the pageant. If it's your first, make sure you really talk up the fun of participating. Your daughter probably won't win the first time, and that's okay. Praise her for participating, comment on how well she walked and how pretty her smile was. Let her know how proud you are of her for competing.
If you're setting out for your first pageant, good luck! Remember that full glitz pageants are a whole new world. It's easy to get overwhelmed, so just stay calm and enjoy yourself. Help your daughter stay positive and focused. Think of the wonderful self-confidence your daughter is going to gain from doing pageants!

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While watching a republican televised debate, there was a question directed to Michelle Bachmann which was extremely sexist. "Given specific passages from the bible directing women to be submissive to their husbands, if she was elected as President of the United States would she let her husband tell her what to do?" My thought immediately was "I can hardly believe this kind of question was directed to a female candidate during a televised debate." Personally I'm not sure how you answer a question like that and still be professional. Answering that kind of question on the fly could bring out the worst in us. Instead, Ms. Bachmann's response was completely professional and dignified.
While I support women's rights and equality, I would not describe myself as a hard-core women's libber by any means. At the same time, women have been in the workplace for many years now and the question remains: is it still a man's world? According to the most recent data, women now make up nearly half (46.7%) of America's workforce and hold 51.5% of management, professional and related jobs (Catalyst Research). Yet only approximately 7.6% of Fortune 500 top executives are women and only 2.6% of Fortune CEOs are women. Have we won the battle but lost the war?
With the exception of a select few, most women are not able to truly break through that "glass ceiling" in real numbers, the speculation being that companies today continue to be built around "masculine norms" and "the good old boy network", try as we might to change it. There is no question; women face much more ambiguity than men when it comes to professional career advancement, culture and the "dos and don'ts" surrounding professional networking. In some fields, particularly engineering, advancement opportunities for women continue to be challenging. We have, however, made great headway. Many organizations have come to fully recognize the real value women bring to the table. We are great at multi-tasking and are all about "just getting things done."
Given the multiple roles women manage on any given day we are bottom line focused, goal oriented and great planners. Women bring a valuable dimension to the work place. One which supports diversity, innovation, consensus and the promotion of cultures supportive of nurturing work environments. All elements which are critical to the success of any organization.
That said there are some very positive trends happening with women-run businesses which are worth noting. According to the latest statistics published by the Women's Presidents Organization, (a New York based non-profit membership organization for women entrepreneurs of private companies generating revenues of $2 million or more) female executives are leading the way in many ways. Most recent data demonstrates 100% of the 50 fastest growing women-led organizations provide health insurance, 88% provide 401K plans and 80% provide life insurance and 47% offer retirement benefits. We are certainly doing our part to take care of our social responsibilities!
The strategy toward "winning the war" may very well lie squarely on corporate America's shoulders. In support of true equality and equal opportunity, organizational commitment and corporate pursuit of initiatives focused on building cultures sensitive to women's norms will be vital. Female executives will be called upon to lead the charge in this next stage of our professional development and journey to full recognition. I believe our success in this next phase relies heavily on women's ability to negotiate terms which are mutually beneficial to men, women, and the organizations we are all working to promote!
I believe women will win the war and achieve total equality in business! While we may not have fully arrived, our journey is well underway! What do you believe? Do you have a strategy that promotes your personal skills, talents and maximizes the contribution you are able to make within the organization you run, manage or work?

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For women the pressure to provide the perfect Christmas, look perfect, be the perfect hostess, keep their pristine house whilst appearing cheerful can be exhausting. And yet, year in, year out women continue to set themselves high standards, not wanting to disappoint children, partners, family and friends.
Many women set themselves up to be superwoman. They look at their friends who may appear to be in complete control, gifts wrapped, house decorated, everything in order. This compounds the requirement to make Christmas wonderful for everyone, but the pressure often means that they end up feeling weary and resentful. Let's look at ways to ease the heavy burden.
Some thoughts:
- Plan ahead. Decide on a meal plan and prepare as much in advance as possible. Whether or not food is eaten on the assigned day is irrelevant. Having meals readily available to be served with minimal effort eases the pressure, especially if unexpected guests call. Attach the planner to the fridge door so that people can see what is available. That way others can help and tick off each dish as it is served.
- Buy some ready-made meals. Not everything has to be homemade and good quality food is readily available in many supermarkets. A simple addition of chopped herbs or a swirl of cream can make shop bought look homemade.
- Have some relaxed days. People get tired of lavish meals. Make a soup for lunch, lasagne or a hot-pot for supper. Served with crusty bread it is often a welcome change after days of rich, heavy food.
- Delegate. Some jobs can easily be passed to others. If the table isn't set exactly right, or the wrong wine glasses are used, relax. No one else is likely to notice. Appreciate the input and remember, this is a family occasion. Let everyone feel good at helping and making their contribution.
- Share with a friend. Some people agree to share the effort and expense. They alternate hosting either Christmas Day lunch or New Years Eve dinner. Or take turns to have each other's children overnight. That way the children entertain each other and parents can plan for a day or two's respite from the noise.
- Say 'no' sometimes. People may enquire to see if you want to do something, have friends round for supper, go somewhere. If you are tired or want a night off politely decline. There's no reason to feel guilty about not wanting to participate in everything. Don't forget though, that it's often the unexpected events that turn out to be the most fun. The evenings we don't expect to be good are often the best because we have no real expectations.
- Set aside some 'me' time. Send everyone out to the park, for a walk or to enjoy a game of rounders and then have a leisurely bath, listen to music, read a book. Ensure that favourite television programmes are set to record, so that they can be enjoyed when you have some free time at a later date.
- Let others help. Often guests are happy to bring a dish with them, wash up, tidy round. Let them. There is no merit in being a weary martyr.
And remember, it is often the mishaps, the times that didn't go quite to plan that people recount later with amusement and affection.

Susan Leigh is a Counsellor and Hypnotherapist who works with stressed individuals to promote confidence and self belief, with couples in crisis to improve communications and understanding and with business clients to support the health and motivation levels of individuals and teams.
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